Thought Fully Successful
If you have read anything on being successful in life you aware of the importance of your thoughts. Actually even if you haven’t read about it you may have noticed that people that can “super” focus usually get what they have zero’d in on, good or bad.
A lot of what I have read talks about writing out your goals and reading them aloud, speaking to your subconscious mind to retrain it and that is great stuff I recommend it all the time. Actually I am currently working on a system that you can plug your goals into and it will help you to keep them in focus by reminding you of them and giving you tools and tips on how to achieve them. But that is coming soon.
The posts you will find on this page will bring you some of the same tools I use with people one-on-one to help release them into a life where they are free to go after their dreams. It is my pleasure to have been invited into people’s lives as a “coach” where they open up their lives to me. I am able to help them apply some basic principles, that I will share with you, that sets them free to be a successful version of themselves.
Parallel Connections
The first people that tend to be perceived as “god” in a person’s life is their parents (you can see how this could mess with someone’s spirituality). In business though these relationships are seen in the way someone interacts with authority figures, real and perceived. If you are trying to start a business those relationships can make or break you.
You may have the drive to be an entrepreneur but never able to see yourself as good enough or possessing anything of value. More and more I am seeing people that really have no idea who they are or what they want to do with their lives. I found most of them either in college or in and out of trade schools, it’s a shame too because they are extremely qualified and talented to build their own business but don’t know it.
Identity, security and protection is derived from the father, which makes the increasing divorce rate and absentee dads a large problem. Got some of these kinks to work out, it’s best to have some accountability. That is somebody that you trust to tell you when you are thinking wrong. Don’t have that? Then start looking for role models (preferably successful) that have the characteristics you don’t.
Oooh yes, security is from the father but comfort, nuture and teaching come from mom. Where does this stop you? What do you need to learn? How are you able? As anyone can tell you business takes a lot of learning and becomes a lot about teaching, see how this can stop you? So how are you doing with your mom?
Every experience can be used to your advantage but you must get near it, understand it, why and how it can affect you. Once it’s “exposed” then you can do something about it.
